Socializing With a Baby

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When you have a baby, it might be hard to imagine why they need socializing. For the first few weeks of life, they seem only to sleep and eat. However, babies build neuron connections much more rapidly than adults. They need socialization, company, and love for their brains to develop.

The high-pitched, sing-song tone of voice that many people use to talk to babies can seem annoying. However, it actually has a basis in human development. Referred to as “Motherese”, this type of speech is easy for baby to hear. It teaches them to look for patterns in speech as well as changes in tone. You can alternate it with regular speech to acclimate your child to how adults talk to one another.

Even though your baby can’t understand what you’re saying, they love to hear you talk. Either from living in you for nine months or from hearing you talk to their mother for nine months, they know the sound of your voice. Continue that outside the womb by talking to them frequently. Talk as you go throughout your day by telling the baby what you’re doing or how you’re feeling. One of the earliest skills a baby learns is turning their head to follow a voice. Talking to them helps them learn this faster.

Try to expose your baby to new people on a fairly regular basis. Don’t over stimulate them by surrounding them with a lot of people they don’t know, but do visit different family members often. The baby will learn different speech patterns, faces, and ways of being held and comforted. Even better, you get a break from being the primary caretaker for a bit!

Although it may seem like an exercise in futility, talk to your baby as if they know what you are saying. You will have a stronger bond with them and their brains will benefit immensely.

Different Types of Baby Carriers

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The increasing popularity of attachment parenting has caused baby carriers to become more common amongst new parents. If you’re interested in wearing your baby, you may be overwhelmed by the many choices available.

A sling may be the most common of all baby carriers. However, it also has the most controversy around it, due to infant deaths in slings. Slings should be tight around a baby, providing head support and holding their spine correctly. Additionally, the sling should keep the baby very close to your head. Slings that sit down by your waist or hips prevent you from being able to feel your baby breathe and hear your baby breathe. Ring slings are a very popular sling variety.

Soft wraps have a bit of a learning curve, but they are also a very affordable type of baby carrier. Typically made of one very long piece of fabric, wraps hold your baby very close your body. You wrap the fabric in such a way that you can insert the baby into a pocket of fabric that holds him tight to you. They can be hard to learn, but once you learn it, it’s easy to do.

Structured carriers are some of the most expensive baby carriers available, but they are also easy to use. Typically, they fit on your body with straps and buckles. They can be tightened for the individual wearer. Typically, the baby sits on the front of you, facing in. Some carriers also have the option of carrying your baby on your back.

The best way to find a baby carrier you will love is to try them out. Visit a baby boutique and try several different kinds. Look for one that is affordable, easy to use, and appropriate for the age of your baby. You won’t miss hauling the stroller around!

Safeguarding infants from nappy rashes

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Nappy rashes – every parent expects them but not all know how to deal with them, far less prevent them. The fact that diaper rashes occur so commonly among infants does not necessarily make them acceptable. Babies suffer a lot of discomfort when they develop rashes and it can get painful. Following simple measures can help prevent nappy rashes and keep the infant nappy happy.

Infants, especially new born babies can dirty their diapers anywhere from 6 to 12 times in a day. It is important that babies remain dry all the time so parents needs to check diapers on an hourly basis throughout the day and at least once or twice in the night. If the diaper is dirty, it should be changed immediately. Dirty diapers not only keep the babies skin wet but also breed germs that can cause severe infections. Before putting on a fresh diaper, wash your baby thoroughly but gently, especially between skin folds. Avoid using soap as they make the babies sensitive skin dry up and crack, furthering the chances of a rash. Use a very mild soap if absolutely necessary. Washing the areas with plain lukewarm running water will not only clean but also sooth the baby.

Once you have washed and cleaned the baby, allow him/her to dry off. You can gently pat (never wipe) the wet areas with a very soft cloth, catching the water between skin folds as well, and then let the baby rest without a diaper for a few minutes. This will naturally dry the baby and will allow the skin to breath. Once the baby is completely dry, apply a protective cream over the area. Petroleum jelly is a good option; it hydrates the skin and provides a coating which prevents urine/ stool from affecting the skin. There are other creams and ointments available too but chose wisely. Avoid applying powder, especially talcum, as these may be inhaled by the baby. When putting on a fresh diaper, make sure it is not too tight for the baby as friction with skin will cause rashes. Diapers should allow the babies skin some breathing space, whether cloth or disposable.

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